They may already know: How loved ones can help in IPV situations
A new episode of Silence Broken: The IPV Talks is highlighting a difficult but common reality—many cases of intimate partner violence are known by someone close to the victim.
Host Bob Perreault and Lanark County Interval House executive director Erin Lee say friends, family and neighbours often sense something is wrong but are unsure how to respond. Lee says that uncertainty is normal, but support can make a difference.
Lee stresses that the most important first step is creating a safe and supportive space. That includes listening without judgment, offering validation, and avoiding pressure or demands.
She warns against common mistakes, such as telling someone to leave immediately or criticizing their partner, which can lead to isolation instead of trust.
The conversation also highlights that support people are not responsible for outcomes, but they can play a key role by staying present and informed. Simple actions—like offering a safe place or helping explore options—can empower victims to make their own decisions.
Lee adds that anonymous crisis lines and community resources are available for both victims and those supporting them.
You can listen to the complete podcast below.
If you are experiencing abuse, please call. Lanark County Interval House can help you.
24-Hour Crisis Line: 1-800-267-7946
Local line: (613) 257-5960
